Listen this the last time I'm gonna anon you, it was JUST an opinion I don't know why you can't seem to get over it. I am not religious, nor do I personally care what other slurs you wanna use. Everyone is super sensitive to something in particular. I don't know if you read wrong or didn't understand, but I will repeat myself. There is NO real male equivalent, which is WHY I think males should not use the word hence my example. This isn't about race or religion. Its a gender issue.
If you look on the last anon, my friend Jessie liked it. Why? Because she was one of the friends that was on my side of the Sam issue. She knows how idiotic Sam was being. I used such a heavy and harsh word because I felt harshly on the matter at hand. What Sam did was harsh, so I felt it necessary to describe my harsh feelings toward her with that strong word. So if there was an equality of the word cunt that is veered toward men would it be okay? Not my fault someone hasn’t come up with one. Douche-bag is pretty close. Being straight or gay isn’t really something someone can control people can’t control being born black, white, Latino, or Arabic, but people can control being a fucking moron. People can control being a jerk and ending friendships over selfish reasons. People can control being a cunt.
That is how I justify using the word I used. I’d greatly appreciate it if you told me who you were.
on first instinct, I can honestly expect someone, even you, to not refer to a guy as a cunt. It’s just not the first thing people think of. Sam screwed me over in a really shitty way. Unless you tell me who you are, I won’t apologize. I loathe Sam now. She’s the ignorant one. Choosing to ignore logic that everyone else but her sees, blinded by foolish emotions that made her set aside the requests of her friends and family to not continue her path of actions. When she did, it turned out bad for her. For being an idiot, and choosing to not be my friend to possibly be with a guy, she deserved it. Just tell me who you are, and I’ll sincerely apologize.
Yes I actually I would call a girl a dick and a guy a cunt. I think the word cunt to me is like the n-word to african-americans. You can use it if you are african american otherwise no. Now I have no idea why you're trying to make it seem like I'm having an argument with you, when all I was doing was voicing a disappointment. I really like you, I just thought that the usage of that word was ignorant. Especially because there is no "real"male equivalent. No slur is as demeaning as cunt.
Well I don’t mean to sound rude, but if someone is being anon with me, I’ll be defensive. If I actually KNOW you as a person, I’d come off much more nicely. And btw, men don’t really have a “ultimate evil” word like cunt, but we have the word “cracker” that is suppose to be the equivalent of the n-word. I’d much prefer to have this in private so I actually know who I’m talking to. If a certain friend is religious, I could understand and apologize. Which doesn’t make me fake, it means I watch my language when I’m friends with certain people. How do i know what not to say when?
I called you a misogynist because you specifically used the word "cunt" to describe a female. Had you used it to describe a male or had you used any other word (asshole, piece of shit, etc) I wouldn't have found it offensive. In a post right after you called a guy an "asshole" couldn't you have called him a cunt then? I am assuming he was probably just as bad as the girl you were describing. Now the choice of words may have been unintentional, but its the fact that you unconsciously did it.
Well, let’s face it anonymous person; you wouldn’t call a girl a dick, would you? No. People call GUYS dicks. You hear people call men “a bitch” but when you say something about a female, you say, wow she’s such a bitch. Who really ever calls a male a “cunt”? Nobody. Because the sociological thought process is that that word is more attributed to females. Yeah I’m sure people DO call men cunts, but it’s most certainly not the first word people would use. It’s the fact that I unconsciously did it that makes me a normal person. Would you call a guy a cunt or a girl a dick as a natural response? I incredibly doubt it. You’re move, anon.
Wow, just because you called a girl a cunt doesn't mean that you're suddenly a misogynist. Depending on who you're talking to, the word is a little harsh, but it's just a word. And even then, you're not calling every girl a cunt. Why are people so quick to pull the 'you're a misogynist' card? OH NO YOU CAN'T SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT FEMALES EVER BECAUSE YOU HATE ALL WOMEN HOW DARE YOUUUU~~~ Pffft. Anons these days.
It seems like something a rather conservative follower that was in lesbians with FOX NEWS would say. It’s funny because I didn’t even know what a misogynist was because I’ve never been called that before. ALL OF MY BEST FRIENDS ARE FEMALES. Thank you Melissa Ily. This is for you.
You know what? Sometimes you have to call a spade a spade, or in the case case of your friend, a cunt a cunt. And I'm female, so I can tell you, I get it. I'm not offended by that word in the least---hell, I even refer to some people as such when it's warranted. When it's deserved, I don't see the problem with it, nor do I understand why other people do--especially if it's not directed at them. If the shoe fits, ya' know? I totally see your point.
See this, anon? This gal knows. I don’t really get the “spade” thing. Must be from a country that’s not the US lol. People are just too sensitive and it’s really annoying. I never called the anon a cunt, just Sam! :D Not my fault she stopped being my friend to attempt to date her ex and it just failed all over the place.
I find it extremely offensive that you used the word cunt to describe a girl. I thought you were a nice, non-chauvinistic, non-misogynistic guy. I was definitely wrong.
If you knew what she did, you’d understand. I was really nice to her and I liked Sam a lot. She’s naive. She said god hates gays. How can I even THINK that I can respect any female that says such narrow-minded shit?! She liked her ex even though nobody, not even her friends NOR family wanted her to even try. She did anyway, and she still ended up not getting him because he was a bad guy like everyone said. How can I not call her that word? And yea, that nice, non-chauvinistic, non-misogynistic characteristics have really gotten me far huh? I’m really curious on who this person is. Please, come forth with your identity.
well it depends on how close of friends you guys are...
Well she told me something today she doesn’t tell most people (which is just something I can do anyway) So I think we’re pretty decent friends. But she’s just so busy with work and 4H she doesn’t have much time. And she’s just cool to be around I’m just scared she’d turn out to say no then it’ll get weird :(
At UT there is a club for gamers, whether its card games or video games or whatever. i hang out with them from time to time. lol you’d totally fit in billy
Yes I would. JCC doesn’t have stuff like that cuz they’re boring. Sadface. I only knew of the kids who play magic in the library but now moved to the cafeteria place. And out of the like…. 5 or 6 people there, one plays Yu-Gi-Oh. Good nuff for me.